It comes
with the job. I knew that when I met him.
It’s not something I will ever be okay with though. It comes with the
job. I knew that when we decided to have children but I will hide it from them
for as long as I can. It comes with the job. I hear this in my head from time
to time. I hear it on the news. I read it in the paper but to me it is so much
more than a job.
To me, it is
the thing that my boys have adored from the moment they could talk. They beam
with pride when we visit daddy at work. They want to be just like him. My oldest tells all his friends about his
daddy and what a hero he is. He is a hero. He is a fire fighter. To my boys he is the guy who gets to ride on
a fire truck at work, wear a uniform and cool boots, climb ladders, and put out
fires. To me he is the center of our
family. He is the one my boys jump up and down for when he comes home. He is
the one who sits at the dinner table and completes our family of four. He is
our rock. He is our heart. He is our hero.
I know
however that he is also the guy running into the burning building when everyone
else is running out. He is the one cutting a hole in a roof of a building that
may collapse. He is not alone. He is surrounded by fellow firefighters who are
all doing the same.
On our wedding
day his Lieutenant at the time and fellow firefighters pulled me aside and
made me a promise. They promised me he would always come home. They promised me
that they would always be safe and they would always get out. I know they meant
this. I also know that somewhere there is a sealed letter written to me that I
don’t ever want to receive. It’s a goodbye letter should the unthinkable ever
happen.
I kiss him
goodbye before his shift and I don’t allow myself to think about the danger. I
can’t. I would never sleep again if I did.
Instead I watch my boys play with fire trucks, and pretend to put out
fires with the hose and I laugh at their imaginations. Deep down part of me
hopes they will outgrow this stage because to be perfectly honest I don’t think
I could handle all three of the men in my life being firefighters.
There are
men and women all over the world who do things for a living that many of us
wouldn’t dare imagine. Police, Firefighters, EMT’s, Nurses, Army, Navy,
Marines, Social workers and the list goes on. They are beyond brave. They are
selfless people who think of others before they ever think of themselves. We
think about them from time to time. We think about them when a tragedy hits the
news. We think about them when something happens that hits close to home.
The people
who love them however think about them constantly. We are proud of them. We are worried
about them. We love them. The news about
the 19 firefighters who died in the Arizona wild fires hit the news on June 30th.
It’s been exactly 17 days since the lives of their families were forever
changed. While the rest of us were going to fireworks and celebrating the 4th
of July their families were grieving. They are not alone. It happens more often
than you think or that I care to admit to know.
I would like
the families of these brave firefighters to know that I am thinking of them on
day 17 and I will think of them long after today. I would like them to know
that their sons, brothers, husbands, boyfriends, friends, grandsons, nephews, cousins,
fathers are not forgotten.
I would like
the 19 men who died that day to know that across the country there are two
little boys who think you are all braver than any superhero they could ever
imagine. I would like to thank them. I would like to tell them they will not be
forgotten. Being remembered comes with the
job.
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| Photo Credit: Rebecca Wilks www.skylineimages.net *Printed with permission* |
This post is dedicated to the 19 men who lost their lives in Arizona on June 30, 2013.
Andrew
Robert
Travis
Dustin
Chris
Eric
Grant
Sean
Scott
Wade
John
Anthony
Jesse
Joe
Travis
Billy
Clayton
Kevin
Garret
Garret
